“Look After Your Brothers and Sisters… And Never Seek Revenge.” — The Last Words of Gen. Johnson Aguiyi-Ironsi to His 13-Year-Old

On the night of July 29, 1966, Nigeria stood on the edge of another military upheaval. Inside the Government House in Ibadan, Head of State Gen. Johnson Aguiyi-Ironsi was spending the night with his host, Lt. Col. Adekunle Fajuyi.

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Also in the residence was his 13-year-old son, Thomas Aguiyi-Ironsi, who had returned from the United Kingdom for the school holidays. He had no idea he was about to witness one of the darkest moments in Nigeria’s history.

As soldiers surrounded the residence, Ironsi reportedly looked outside and calmly said:

«”I don’t know whether they are friends or foes.”»

Years later, Thomas would understand that his father already knew the danger was real.

Before the soldiers came in, Ironsi gave his son a message that would shape his life forever:

«”Look after your brothers and sisters. Your mother will keep the family together… and never seek revenge.”»

At the time, the young boy could not fully understand those words. It was only much later that he realized his father was teaching him that vengeance belongs to God.

When the soldiers finally entered, Ironsi and his host, Lt. Col. Adekunle Fajuyi, were taken away. Neither of them returned alive.

Inside the residence, only two people remained untouched: Thomas Aguiyi-Ironsi and Timothy Pam, one of Ironsi’s ADCs.

Realizing the danger they were in, Pam a highly experienced police officer trained in intelligence and covert operations quickly devised an escape plan. He obtained Fulani clothing, hats and glasses for both of them, disguised themselves, slipped through the city unnoticed, boarded a train, and safely returned Thomas to his mother in Lagos.

It was a daring act of courage that saved the life of the young boy.

Decades later, Thomas Aguiyi-Ironsi went on to build a distinguished career in public service. He served as Nigeria’s Ambassador to Togo and was appointed Minister of Defence under President Obasanjo in 2006.

History often remembers those who died. But sometimes, the untold stories of those who survived remind us of the cost of leadership, the pain of national crises, and the enduring power of forgiveness over revenge.

History should not be forgotten it should be understood.

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